Many of us, especially the under 40's crowd, are
scratching for some solutions in a very unforgiving world. The majority of Corvette
owners are well into their 40's, and are pretty well settled.
You may want to pass the following words
of advise to someone from the "X" generation. Remember, nobody ever said life was
going to be easy.
Never Give Up
Are you having a tough time in your career? Have you
been laid off and are still looking for work? Are
you overworked, stressed, and tired in your present
position, and are unable to visualize a solution?
Sometimes we believe it is the economy's fault that
we are having such a difficult and frustrating time
in our career. And, we have a long list of evidence
to prove our beliefs. People around us are getting
laid off by the thousands. Every day another upsetting
story appears in the newspaper about the stock market
or another company that is losing money,or another
confidence shattering scandal, or even a war. We worry
about our future, and wonder what will happen to us.
Each day we get more and more discouraged. And, many
of you have given up. (Even if you have not admitted
this to yourself yet.)
Here's something to think about: If you believe that
a disappointing career is the best you can expect, it
will become your reality (and your future.) Your career
gets better when you make it better. It may not be
easy, and you will have to overcome your fear of the
unknown, but it is possible to get what you want in
your career if you take the necessary steps to get
there.
So, How Can You Make Your Career Better? Try the
Steps Below:
1. Stop Talking About What Happened (Or, What Is
Happening)
Are you unable to forget the day you were laid off?
Are you still upset about it? Are you still steaming
inside because a co-worker got promoted, a new office,
more money, additional resources, etc. and you didn't?
Yes, we all know what happened to you. (We've heard it
a thousand times.) And, we understand and feel your
pain. But the more you talk about the situation,
without taking action to move past it, the longer you
will stay where you are.
2. Stop Believing You Are The Only One With Problems
No matter how dire your career may seem right now,
there is someone worse off than you. What are you
grateful for? Do you have a roof over your head? Three
meals a day? A loving family? Some people do not even
have this much. Who can you help? Making a difference
in other people's lives is why we are here on this
planet. Helping others will keep your mind off your
troubles and allow you to feel better about yourself.
3. Stop Over Thinking Everything
Our careers (and lives) are not as complicated as we make
them. Is there a career goal you want to reach? Make a
plan and then execute it. What stands in the way of doing
something so straightforward and simple? Fear, worry,
and a need to make sure everything will work out first.
Life is not about guarantees. You do the work first,
and you receive the rewards second. It is not the other
way around. It's always a good idea to consider your
alternatives before making a decision, but over
thinking and over analyzing before you take action,
will keep you from reaching your goal.
4. Stop Making Excuses
Are you a busy person? Yes. Do life and responsibilities
get in the way? If you let them.
It's time to tell the truth. You do not have what you
want in your career because you have not been taking
action to achieve your goal. You can say an outside
force distracted you, or you have been trying hard
and getting nowhere, but have these sentences gotten
you any closer to your goal? Maybe you haven't been
ready to go after what you want. Maybe you were not
sure a certain direction was the one you wanted to
take. Uncertainly is understandable. But uncertainly
holds you back. Do not put faith in your excuses;
take responsibility for creating them, so you can move
forward instead.
5. Start Moving
At times you will not feel like sending out one more
resume or making one more phone call. At times you will
not feel like dealing with all the work and stress at
your present position. Usually the one thing you do not
feel like dealing with is what brings you the solution
you are seeking. Nothing worthwhile is easy in the
beginning. But over time, you will see results, if you
start moving now.
So what do you say? You only have one life to live so
it might as well be a life you love!